The gift of gratefulness and what it can teach you about attracting your first ever FEMININE $10K Launch

The gift of gratefulness and what it can teach you about attracting your first ever FEMININE $10K Launch

<<**Just sharing a few insights and tips to…get you breathing again at a normal pace, enjoying those warm showers and FINALLY walking the streets of Paris…(no strings attached! ;)**>>

I am no stranger to gratefulness. In fact, there have been 3 instances in my life where it’s been REALLY strong and made a huge difference in my experience.

The first one was when I finally came to the States from Cuba. No, I wasn’t grateful just then! Coming to the U.S. was the dream of my mother, not mine.

She wanted to give her 3 kids a different kind of life with opportunities, education…you know, the American dream.

I remember her explaining to me why we had to leave Cuba. I was VERY resistant…in fact, of the 4 of us, I took it the hardest. Cuba wasn’t just my home, I BELONGED there…

…or so I felt.

My mom’s general feeling about it all was “Do you like living like this?”

The “like this” she was referring to was taking showers from a bucket with a cup (we didn’t have running water) and eating hard bread from the panaderia because that was all there was to eat.

For a 12yo who thought she knew everything and who had ONLY known that kind of life, the answer was YES! I did! I was happy there, even living like THAT.

So…in this instance, gratefulness came much later. After the crying and the missing of my home to tear my heart to pieces, and the silence that I had never known settled in my heart…

…under a running warm delicious shower, for the simple easy pleasure of it…and then many years later when I visited Cuba again and in my family’s home I had to once again shower with a bucket. I was VERY grateful! 🙂

The second one was when I got to Paris for the first time…by myself, in a plane, with no friends there at all… and never having traveled that far away from home before.

This one hit me like TON of bricks all at once. I got off the plane to be immediately bombarded with French EVERYWHERE…and me feeling like it was the most natural thing in the world.

On the taxi ride to my hotel, the cabbie was chatting with me in French, and me telling him about my home and what I was doing in France…I think he was the first native that I ever spoke French with. It was one of the best feelings of my life.

I had tears of joy, vibrating at 1 billion miles/hr and then some, when I took a walk down the Seine or Canal St. Martin. I was grateful…to fulfill my lifelong dream.

So you’re waiting for it no?

What the h*** does this have to do with the Feminine Launch?

You see…for most kinds of life situations being grateful after and while it’s happening may work to help your experience…but NOT for entrepreneurship it doesn’t!

Here’s the definition: a person who organizes and manages any enterprise, especially a business, usually with considerable initiative and RISK.

The risk is not just financial…these days, the risk is on every level!

Risk of failure, risk of ridicule, risk of emotional mayhem, risk of not finding your tribe, and on and on…

To overcome all of these risks and still make it to the other side, with the clients, the success and the business you desire requires FAITH!

The kind of faith that you have to give everything to…and nothing shows more faith than gratefulness, when you do it BEFORE the fact.

It’s very easy to be grateful when you’ve had your $10K month, when you have your $5K client, and all that jazz…

…but can you be grateful when you didn’t? Can you be grateful after 5 people in a row told you NO? Can you be grateful to turn the risk around?

If you can’t, then you’re missing the lesson, the point, the big huge OPPORTUNITY resting on that moment.

To have the $10K Launch, you have to become the woman that HAS it. If you are not, then there are lessons you need to learn before it happens.

Gratefulness eliminates the weight on your chest that doesn’t let you breathe, the panic, the worry and fear…the DOUBT!

When you eliminate these things and go back to full faith, you can see the answers, you can open up to opportunities, you can SEE what you didn’t before and make the shift…easily!

So this was the 3rd place for me. I had to learn to be grateful BEFORE as well, and watch my business blossom as I became more of the woman who had that business.

So what can YOU do to have that feminine successful launch? Here’s a few things…

1. We’re talking business here… so check in your business: What is  your next goal? What is that thing that you truly desire right now?

2. What is/has been challenging about this goal? Have you hit the goal yet? If you haven’t, what are the emotions, thoughts and feelings that are prevailing right now?

3. Identify where you can bring in gratefulness and pump up your faith. REFRAME all those emotions from step 2 into gratefulness.

4. Watch the solutions show up! They have to, when you are in the right energy

5. BECOME. You have to. Your launch depends on it 🙂

Now go out there and get it done!


The gift of individually or how NOT to delay your High-End Launch

The gift of individually or how NOT to delay your High-End Launch and what it can teach you about…being like everyone else WHILE also standing out… and selling your $5K packages!

<<**Just sharing a few tips to help you…welcome more opportunities and CHOOSE to be more like your sister!…(no strings attached! ;)**>>

I don’t know about you, but when I started my first business, all of my insecurities and old stories about needing to stand out came knocking on my door. Not with a fist…with a wrecking ball!

Maybe you can identify…when I was little I used to be either compared to my sister, or I used to be told that we were twins and the same. A little confusing for a 5yo.

You see, me and my sister are only 1 year, 1 month and 10 days apart. We have the same build from our face, to our heights, to our hips 😉

I came to live with my mother, sister and brother from my great-grandmother’s house where I was adored for the unique being that I was…I was used to being an only child with my great-grandparents (even if I knew I had siblings) and now there were two of us girls.

So people, as they often do, would compare us. And when they did, it was always saying that my sister was prettier, smarter, thinner than me….the list goes on.

When they said we were twins and the same, it felt even worse to me because the message was…you’re the same, but she’ll always be better.

You can see how this brought out a little rebellion in me…and for many years I made myself as different from her as I could be. In my character, style, personality…honestly, any way I could find!

I would reject any thought of us being the same (even though the similarities were pretty darn obvious) and during those years in high-school and even college, everyone that told me we looked alike got the stink eye from me.

I eventually got over it as I “grew up” and came to appreciate being compared to her. Now that my rebel blinders are off, I can see that we are so alike that it’s scary wonderful!

I also came to understand that though we still like the same things, have most of the same thoughts and instincts about life, we are also soooooo different. I couldn’t see either of those things when I was so gung ho about it.

So how does that help you sell $5K packages?

There are a lot of people out there doing EXACTLY what you do. What I mean by that is, if you’re a relationship coach, the end goal is to find your soulmate, no?

In business, it means nothing that you are like everyone else. In fact, it can be a very good thing that a lot of people want to deliver the same outcome that you do because it means that there is a need. This is nothing new.

You know this…and yet, why do you still doubt that your clients want to find YOU? That they want the SPECIFIC way that you deliver that solution, who you are when you teach it, or even the way that you organize the information that will get them there?

This doubt is a major trap that your mind has cooked up for you to get you to delay your High-End Launch. You simply stay where you are, always tweaking, always trying to get clearer, and never stepping into your brilliance. Rather anti-climactic if you ask me!

The truth is that you will never have it all figured out. You do it as you move, as you launch and understand what is working and what isn’t. It’s not more complicated than that.

So here are a few tips to get you to use the gift of individuality and start selling $5K packages as YOU…

Step 1. Stop comparing yourself. Though you deliver the same outcome, you couldn’t be the same as “her” if you tried…especially when selling to high-end clients. They buy YOU as much as they do their desired outcome.

Step 2. Stop pushing so hard trying to be different…it always feels forceful. When you’re focusing on other people rather than yourself… and your clients read your marketing, they are reading someone else’s marketing and then you wonder why they choose the other mentor, and not you? The focus has to be on you!

Step 3. Make it a daily practice to understand yourself and what you teach, more consciously. Pay attention to your desires and how you’re growing, and grounding those things daily so they become a part of you. I do that by journaling but you can use your favorite method here.

When you focus on you, it happens. The self-created struggle is what takes IT away from you.

…Then attracting your high-paying clients with your high-end launch WORKS, because you’re speaking YOU and they can feel it.

It can even help you find opportunities with people you would have considered your “competitors”!

Now go out there and get it done!


Week 4/4 behind the scenes of my $10K Launch: the #1 Thing You NEED to Make Your Launch Successful

WOOHOO! We’re on our last week on how to totally ROCK your high-end launch. 

This last piece is the missing of the puzzle – that thing you need to get those high-end clients saying, “I absolutely NEED to work with you!” 

Wouldn’t that be music to your ears? (It’s one of my favorite songs.) 

This week is all about the energy that you need to bring to your launch – from beginning to end – in order to get those high-end clients dying to work with you! 

The video is content-filled and super quick, you’re not going to want to miss this! 

In the video I go over just the #1 thing you need to make your $10K launch a success and HOW you can use that thing to assure a successful launch.

Once you watch the video, tell me what you think. I would love to hear your comments below on your launch topic and how you’re going to utilize this step in YOUR launches!
Sending you all my love,
Stay vibrant,
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